There were different ways to discover oneself, my own may not be yours. But one thing is that nobody can discover you but yourself.
I will enlighten you in various ways, I hope it will help your question.
Those ways are:
Deep thought of where you have been and where you were going. This will make you think of what you suppose to do but you don't. Please don't put pressure on yourself because the past may not determine the future.
Two, what you love doing. Most people start their careers with their talent and what they love doing. Every human being has one or more talents. Some are strongly visible, like great voice. While others aren't. Those which aren't can only be discovered by oneself, like what gives you the pleasure that you feel like doing over again and again
But one thing, never compare your life with another person. We are different. A person may be contra with your life that doesn't make you the same. You may love the same thing but you got different lives.
You are free to ask me questions if you want to start up something when you have discovered yourself.
Report Agbeye's answer
I suppose that everyone should explore themselves during their life. Who am I, why am I here, what is my mission, what are my values... There are so many questions to explore. Your questions may be different from mine. Everyone follows their own path in this life.
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Three cogent and workable ways to discover oneself are:
Ask yourself what you can do easily without any stress or difficulty. The truth about life is that everyone is created with an intellent which is an inner ability to get something done without stress. Let's take a look at the kids, at their early stage, you will see them gathering, one will always want to be the one teaching others. Some kids will gather composing songs by themselves while a natural ability will be on some to beat drum. Some can be technical works. Etc.
Where do you dream to be in the next 10-20years to come. This aspect serve as a guide and drive that will help you to know who to meet or make friends with, because where you will be at the stipulated time is dependent on who your circles are. You need the right people around you to realize or actualize yourself, because there will always be a challenge or several challenges along the way, these people will serve as your motivation.
Which area of career did I want to build myself on in life. This is an area that make one to be relevant in life.
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